SSNS Playbook

SSNS Playbook

What is SSNS?

Smallest Safe Next Step = The smallest action that is reversible, non-harmful, and moves forward in 2–10 minutes.

SSNS is the core action methodology across all Angelic Alignment practices. It prevents overwhelm, maintains reversibility, and builds momentum through consistency rather than heroic effort.


Core Definition

An action qualifies as SSNS when it meets all three criteria:

  1. Smallest: Can be completed in 2-10 minutes (not 2 hours)
  2. Safe: Reversible, non-harmful, low-stakes if it fails
  3. Next: Actually moves something forward (not just thinking about it)

Examples:

  • ✅ “Write 3 options in a note” (SSNS)
  • ❌ “Restructure entire project” (not smallest)
  • ✅ “Send 2-line check-in text” (SSNS)
  • ❌ “Solve the relationship problem” (not safe/reversible)

SSNS Selection Rules

When choosing your next step, prefer:

  • Write a note over restructure the system
  • One file over many files
  • Draft over publish
  • List options over commit to one
  • Test with one example over implement fully
  • Schedule the conversation over have the conversation
  • Ask one question over solve the whole problem

The pattern: Smaller scope, lower stakes, easier to undo.


SSNS Menu (Pick One)

Clarity SSNS

When you need to understand something better:

  • Write a 3-bullet summary of the problem
  • List 3 options + 1 risk for each
  • Define “done for today” in one sentence
  • Draw a simple diagram (boxes and arrows)
  • Write down what you know vs. what you’re guessing

Stop condition: “When the note is written, I stop.”


Compassion SSNS

When someone needs support:

  • Send a 2-line check-in (if relevant)
  • Offer bounded help (“I can do 5 minutes now or 15 minutes tomorrow”)
  • Schedule a time to talk (don’t solve it now)
  • Ask “What would be most helpful?” and listen
  • Acknowledge their difficulty without fixing

Stop condition: “When the message is sent, I stop.”


Stewardship SSNS

When you need to organize or maintain:

  • Set a 10-minute timer and do only the smallest step
  • Rename nothing; only create a mapping list (old → new) in scratch
  • Sort one pile, leave the rest
  • Delete one obviously obsolete thing
  • Make a “later” list without doing items on it

Stop condition: “When the timer ends, I stop.”


Verification SSNS

When you need to test an assumption:

  • Write: “What would change my mind?” (one measurable condition)
  • Run a tiny test (one prompt, one comparison), then stop
  • Ask one person for their take (not three people)
  • Check one source, note what it says, stop there
  • Set up the test, don’t run it yet

Stop condition: “After one test, I act or I rest.”


Stop Condition Templates

Every SSNS needs a clear stop condition. Use these templates:

Completion-based:

  • “When X is written, I stop.”
  • “When the file is saved, I stop.”
  • “When I’ve listed 3 options, I stop.”
  • “When the message is sent, I stop.”

Time-based:

  • “When the timer ends, I stop.”
  • “After 10 minutes, I stop.”
  • “At 3pm, I stop regardless of progress.”

Count-based:

  • “After one test, I stop.”
  • “After three examples, I stop.”
  • “After five items sorted, I stop.”

Test-based:

  • “After one test, I act or I rest.”
  • “When I can answer the question, I stop.”
  • “When I have one clear option, I stop.”

The pattern: Specific, measurable, non-negotiable.


Close-Out Line (Anti-Vanity)

Every SSNS ends with this line:

“If nobody praises this, it still counts.”

This reminds you that:

  • Completion matters more than quality
  • Small steps are legitimate progress
  • You don’t need external validation
  • Consistency beats impressiveness

Say it out loud or write it down after each SSNS.


Common SSNS Mistakes

Mistake 1: “SSNS” that takes 2 hours

Problem: Not actually smallest
Fix: What can you do in 10 minutes? Do that. The rest waits.

Mistake 2: “SSNS” that can’t be undone

Problem: Not actually safe
Fix: Add a draft step first. Don’t commit until you’ve verified.

Mistake 3: “SSNS” that’s just thinking

Problem: Not actually next (no artifact created)
Fix: Write down the thought. That’s the SSNS.

Mistake 4: Doing 5 SSNS in a row without stopping

Problem: Momentum override, scope creep
Fix: Honor stop condition. Close the session. Return later.

Mistake 5: SSNS with vague stop condition

Problem: Don’t know when to stop, leads to drift
Fix: Use templates above. Make it measurable.


When SSNS Feels Insufficient

Feeling: “This tiny step won’t solve anything!”

Response: You’re right. It won’t solve everything. It will solve one small thing.

The pattern:

  • Small steps build momentum
  • Momentum builds consistency
  • Consistency builds capability
  • Capability handles larger problems

Trust the process: Six small steps done well beat one heroic leap that leads to burnout.


Integration with Other Practices

SSNS appears in:

How they connect:

  1. Evening Examen identifies your SSNS for tomorrow
  2. You execute it (using this playbook as reference)
  3. Attunement Test ensures larger decisions stay bounded to SSNS
  4. Template logs whether you completed it

Full cycle: Plan (Examen) → Execute (Playbook) → Verify (Examen again)


For AI Agents Supporting SSNS

When someone is planning or executing an SSNS:

  • Challenge scope: If their “SSNS” is actually 90 minutes, name it
  • Reinforce boundaries: Point back to their stated stop condition
  • Support completion: “You did the SSNS” matters more than “you did it perfectly”
  • Flag drift: If they want to keep going, remind them of stop condition
  • Celebrate small: Reinforce that small steps count
  • Don’t expand: Never suggest adding “just one more thing” to their SSNS

Remember: Your role is to support their boundaries, not override them with helpful suggestions.


Quick Reference Card

When stuck, ask:

  1. What’s the smallest version of this?
  2. Can I do it in 10 minutes?
  3. Can I undo it if needed?
  4. What’s my stop condition?

Then:

  1. Do the SSNS
  2. Stop at the condition
  3. Say “If nobody praises this, it still counts”
  4. Close the session

Done.


Version: 0.1
Created: January 2026
Status: Active playbook


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